Is there some specific moment or event that makes a guy suddenly decide “Yes, I think I love her..?
Well, the answer is not clear-cut, but there are some general principles.
''Men have certain innate needs that must be met before they truly feel connected !
When we are in a mutual loving relationship we are constantly transferring our life energy to our beloved automatically and more so when we think of them.
just like "Energy flows where attention goes".
In a balanced relationship this transference of life energy is strong and has equal amounts of incoming and outgoing life energy.
This helps both members feel ''secure and stable'' in a relationship even if it might be long distance.
n after falling in love..
People change..Friendship changes.. Comfort zone with family changes...Priorities changes...!
Everyone, except for the one you love becomes a stranger for you !
All you want.. All you see is that one person..The one you love...!
Only his/her happiness matters to you.Only he/she is the one you seek !
But is that one person worth all your dedication ?
We know that Love never comes with a guarantee..
Only his/her happiness matters to you.Only he/she is the one you seek !
But is that one person worth all your dedication ?
We know that Love never comes with a guarantee..
On the other hand...We know no matter how messed up we are.. No matter how stupid we are.. Our close friends and our family are gonna be with us... They do come with guarantee of support and togetherness!
Is that we take friends and family as granted? To forget about them and care only for the person we love?
Is it all worth?
Is it?
I don't understand why people starve for love?
I don't think all this happens for better.. For one relation we are ready to leave all other relations!
Somehow.. When this one relation ends.. Ur so broke that.. U go numb!
You still want it back No matter how harsh it was !
And So hard it was!
Madness is the word I would rather use than call it love!
When it's over, your alone! You realize that you have walked so far that even your friends and family cant reach you! The lost comfort zone... Makes it more difficult to be with the people who once were your closest assets!
It leaves you completely broke! But too be glad you still have friends who take you back the way you are.. No matter how rude you were with them.. They accept you with a warm hug and a painkilling smile !
Glad that I had such friends during that phase of my life!
One thing I have realized with all this Love thing is that.. Love is not for everyone!
Is it?
I don't understand why people starve for love?
I don't think all this happens for better.. For one relation we are ready to leave all other relations!
Somehow.. When this one relation ends.. Ur so broke that.. U go numb!
You still want it back No matter how harsh it was !
And So hard it was!
Madness is the word I would rather use than call it love!
When it's over, your alone! You realize that you have walked so far that even your friends and family cant reach you! The lost comfort zone... Makes it more difficult to be with the people who once were your closest assets!
It leaves you completely broke! But too be glad you still have friends who take you back the way you are.. No matter how rude you were with them.. They accept you with a warm hug and a painkilling smile !
Glad that I had such friends during that phase of my life!
One thing I have realized with all this Love thing is that.. Love is not for everyone!
Love is nothing to starve for!
Love is nothing to run behind for!
Its just a feeling!
A mere feeling... Rather a period of madness!
First... Love and Be Happy!
Than... Love and Loose!
Now... Love and Regret !
First... Love and Be Happy!
Than... Love and Loose!
Now... Love and Regret !
Heart full of Pain,
Head full of Stress,
Handful of Anger,
Held in my Chest !
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